Eurocentric “Platonic” love: Many people use the abstract Platonic idea of love to get closer to you with the knife. One must have the spiritual gift of discernment to avoid that. Sometimes the person most fervently pushing a rhetoric of love is lying in wait for you to sleep. A wolf does not come in wolf’s clothing, it would be too easy for the sheep and shepherd to sniff him out. Love is actuated in action, not in words.