I don’t believe healthy relationships are built on the idea of changing yourself for someone else of for that matter changing them. I think a true love partner is one who loves you as you are and whom you love likewise. Someone who sees pass your faults to your needs and aspirations and potentials and vice versa. Too many people approach relationships as a question of either a self-reconstruction project or a fix the other person project. They tend to end up frustrated with who they become, who the other person does not become, or the relationship between the two.