The Ingroup Heterosexual Afrikan Relationship Myth Machine

It is simply all lies…the man shortage, the women dont marry, the educated women dont marry, the wealthy men dont marry sisters, the men dont marry, the men dont marry sisters generally. Very simply there is an all out rhetorical attack on ingroup heterosexual Afrikan relationships based on lies but what stuns me is the number of Afrikans who believe this bullspit and pass it around.

Where we ARE seeing problems is in the STABILITY of our relationships and the biggest factor there is the Eurocentric emphasis on materialism, the lack of family involvement in securing new marriages, the replacement of rites of passage with “dating,” and those myths themselves and others which collectively confuse us about who we should be as husbands, fathers, men, wives, mothers, women, etc..

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